Talk:Abi-Maria Gomes/@comment-5366282-20121212024916

She doesn't really know what she is. But it is not right for others to keep on constantly judging her, and saying they hate her. She is not self-aware, but she is fighting her way through the pain and mess that she has caused or that others have caused her, she has survived through the times that people tried to vote her out. She has sat out in challenges, and is still here. She has survived not being in an alliance anymore and Carter has left. But she has to work on really willing to listen to others' opinions and bring social skills around and team work, because she also judges other people alot and she expresses herself sometimes in ways that could hurt others' feelings and make her more of an unlikeable person. But I also feel that it was not right for Denise to always mention the negative things in her, because that girl also has feelings. You know, people must have destroyed part of her identity, but she also can be arguable and irritable at times. She jumps to conclusions so fast, and doesn't really need other people's opinions and just agrees with her own, she cannot usually tell or she doesn't care weather what she believes is right or wrong, but believe me, people make mistakes. But she has done many wrong things but she still has some things to work on, like I said earlier. It's really this hard to explain why we should not be so mean to her and yet just try to understand what is going on. She is a human being, and maybe that's Abi's culture, but we also cannot judge if it's a Brazillian's culture or not. She isn't self-aware, I even felt sorry for RC when she got mad at her because it was Pete who caused all the trouble between them, and he is the one who actually caused Abi to be ruined by every one, but he is also very manipulative and must have really disliked Abi and RC but acted like it with Abi so they could form an Alliance and then beat everyone else to it and cause her to be more unliked by everyone, but she survived it all and still here today. I do not think she will win this as well as I do but for her to be liked is: To listen to others, stop being sarcastic, stop bashing people, stop judging people, stop slamming people, try to understand ways in other people, bring team work and social skills together, not sit out in too much challenges, and to add that up together--She should be easy-going and cooler when she doesn't trust other people and she should also stop jumping into conclusions that fast and investigate before she hates or stops trusting. But overall, she only has to change some things and not all, and keep fighting like she does if she actually wants to win. I'm not defending her or am for her but I also do not dislike the fact that she's still there and I do not dislike her and I have come into terms with myself in discovering her nature and what she has to work on.

You can argue with me but I have spoken.